am i doing the right thing???

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Registered: 10-28-2006
am i doing the right thing???
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Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:42pm

I was dating someone for a couple of months. Things were picking up major steam, had a big trip booked 2 months out, talked about our future a lot, he told me he loved me...But then i caught him with his online dating profile back up (that is how we met , and on a random intuitive hunch one night, after meeting his daughter for the first time) i looked and it was there!!! I confronted him immediately. He said he would do anything for me to not end it. He sent me tons of flowers, did 1000 things over the next week to show me how serious he was, and told me he would do anything to not have me walk out of his life.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 11:43pm

Hi rainydayproblems,


Here's your previous post for others to catch up on the story: is he playing games??


::did i do the right thing by removing him from my chat thing? he will see it if he tried to contact me, and he will know i took him off my list, which is in a sense blocking him.

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Registered: 10-28-2006
Sat, 05-03-2008 - 8:14am

Hi and thank you for your response. I am not sure what you mean exactly. I do not like that i feel like he is playing some sort of game. I do not like the fact that when we were commited and exclusive he was ever present and would do anything to show me he was interested, and now he contacts me when he wants and on his terms, while telling me he is not sure what he wants.

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Registered: 10-28-2006
Sun, 05-04-2008 - 4:47pm
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