ok to breakup 4good no words? (long)

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Registered: 07-23-2006
ok to breakup 4good no words? (long)
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Sat, 05-03-2008 - 11:31am

Me and my exboyfriend broke up in November because we of a fight and because he told me 8 months later that he had someone in another country that was coming back the U.S. with his child, and he didn't know if they were going to work things out but that he still wanted to stay with me. He changed the story many times to keep me on a string, and I don't really know the real truth.


Yes, I know all the lies that are in between this, I was devasted, heartbroken, depressed and in denial. We had a stormy, passionate

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 05-03-2008 - 10:13pm

Welcome to the board esorogidni,


Considering that he's with someone else, I think it's probably a good idea just to block him, delete him and ignore him.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Sun, 05-04-2008 - 12:59pm

Definitely with the horrible way he's been treating you, the best thing to do would be to block him from ever contacting you again, even by phone call.

Even if he calls, it would more likely than not still be a lie. It's not like he can only lie to you by text, you know? My vote is that of course he's still with the other person, that's the mother of his child, possibly even his wife.

Here's the other thing: You are not to be trusted where he is concerned. Maybe someday you can stand up to his attempts, but right now you're pretty weak-willed when it comes to him so the best thing to do is to block any and all contact from him. He treated you badly for sure, but you were the one who continually accepted his lame excuses and his feeble existence in your life. Don't do that anymore, you have a responsibility to yourself.

Best of luck to you,

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