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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 4:28pm

Hey all-


So, prob like most of you here, I'm confused.


I've been with my bf for almost three years (which has been good, for the most part).

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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: meow011
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 7:08pm

Cry in private. Or tell us about it, but don't you dare let on to him you feel bad about it. His deal was that he felt you couldn't handle the stress, that you were clingy, etc., etc., and yes, you have made great strides, but people don't normally trust sudden changes as being permanent, so now you just need to keep that up indefinitely.

You need to be so completely at peace and relaxed within yourself that it shocks him. That's the only way they usually come back around, once again interested. If he doesn't, then you've already started the healing process.

I would say he's got a lot of nerve telling you he wants space and then dictating to you that you can't go out with other people. Um, no. He has no rights to you, he willingly gave them up. Twice.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: meow011
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 7:22pm

Welcome to the board meow001,


Unfortunately, sometimes when time apart happens, it gives one or both people a change in perspective.

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In reply to: meow011
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 8:10pm

I agree with Sandra.