I can give advise, but now I need some

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Registered: 05-06-2008
I can give advise, but now I need some
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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 4:37pm

The "fiancee" I have been with for three years really did it now.


He and I were at a store when this gu hit me on my back because I accidently cut him in line. Well, I turned around, threatened to call the police and told him I was going to put him in jail where he belongs. The guy then called me a "Fat B****".


My finacee did not do one thing. In fact, when the police arrived, he stood there and still did nothing and said I was being excessive.


We of course argued when we got home and I guess he was so angry that he then said that I deserved what I got for being so overbearing.


I obviously became very angry and hurt and told him that it was over. He then got on a dating site and posted a profile to I guess make me angrier.


This after three years.


Any comments?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 4:50pm

I'm almost afraid to ask what those three years together have been like if


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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2004
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 6:56pm

Welcome to the board Goddess-


You cannot be with someone who thinks it is OK for another person to hit you. No one should be hit! You do not deserve that, no matter how you acted or what you said. You need to be away from this person, and stay there.


I can give great advise, but make stupid mistakes. Please learn from us. Have No contact w/ this person. WE will all be here for you.


Hugs,


Michelle

seachells

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Registered: 12-28-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 9:06pm

This is

Missy
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Registered: 01-31-2006
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 12:01am

Congrats!!!!! Things work in oddly weird ways. You should thank the guy who hit you in the store because that one hit saved you from years of heartache and probably a divorce from your fiance. Now that you have seen his *true* character, you can make your decision knowing what you know. It's really a blessing in disguise and even though you may be in a lot of pain and dissappointment right now, it hurts a lot less than 10 years down the road.