HURTING SO MUCH - PLS HELP

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Registered: 03-30-2006
HURTING SO MUCH - PLS HELP
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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 10:07pm

The short version of the story is that I ended a 4-year relationship about 15 months ago.

~vanillabeanie
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Registered: 03-06-2008
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 11:51pm
I could tell you that my ex wanted the get back together when we're older thing, but I honestly don't think it'll work out. Our break-up was somewhat mutual, but as much as I love her and want to be with her I doubt things will work out in the future. It's always nice to give it a try as your friend here wants to do, but it all really depends on how they ended their relationship in the past.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 05-07-2008 - 1:31pm

Welcome to the board vanillabeanie,


As nice as possible, you need to move forward. It's been 15 months and your thoughts are focused on "does it often work out when two people date when they are in college, remain close friends, and then try it again later in life" - if someone says 'yes, it can work out' or 'no, it won't work out' how does that change where you are in your head?