hes acting really different !!! why?

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Registered: 06-24-2005
hes acting really different !!! why?
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Fri, 06-24-2005 - 9:32pm
everything was going good since we started dating!!! (i mean perfect relationship good)one day we were fine and then 2 hours later he started acting really diferent like he doesnt want to be with me anymore! what does that mean? why do guys do that? i really dont understand!!! he wont tell me whats going on or if i did something to upset him>>> its gotten me really confused
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Registered: 06-06-2005
Sat, 06-25-2005 - 12:56am
You just need to be really blunt, and bring it to the table. Ask him what is wrong, And if he wants to be in a relationship with you. Also, how long have ya'll been going out? If this is pretty early on, I wouldn't trust a guy that seems to be playing games, and personally would kicks his butt to the curb. But if you've been together for pretty long, I would bring it to his attention, and like I said straight ask him what his deal is.
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Registered: 06-06-2005
Sat, 06-25-2005 - 12:57am
*kick
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Registered: 06-24-2005
Sat, 06-25-2005 - 1:48am
yea thats the thing! weve olny been going out for about a month now
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Registered: 06-06-2005
Sat, 06-25-2005 - 3:13pm
Honestly in the end it is your decision. If you want to stay in this and try to make this work, then do that. If you don't really think its worth it, or deep down you know that he really isn't into you, then look else where. There are a billion other guys in the world. Find someone that you know is into you, and cares about your feelings. I wouldn't let this guy play games with me. Like I said, just ask him straight out to be honest with you. If these games continue, your only gonna get hurt. Don't let him do that to you, find someone else.
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Sun, 06-26-2005 - 8:08pm

Welcome to the board, Cassie ~ Hope you're not having problems finding your responses by now!


I think you'd get better response if you gave us a better picture of the situation, that way we'll understand better and be able to offer thoughts and suggestions that fit your situation rather than just generalities that may or may not fit.

In your response to Mandy_n_jut you said you'd been going out for about a month and that's good information, but we need more! How old are each of you? Can you give us details of what actually happened in the instance when his mood changed? Is this the only time it's happened? It sounds like you tried to talk to him about it but he won't discuss it, does he deny there's a problem or does he refuse to talk to you about it? Is he still acting stand-offish to you or is he back to acting fine?


The answers to the questions will help us be able to offer you thoughts and suggestions that make sense to your situation, I'll be checking back for your response.





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Edited 6/26/2005 8:16 pm ET ET by cl-2nd_life








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