help me please to explain his behavior..

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Registered: 09-10-2006
help me please to explain his behavior..
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Sat, 10-07-2006 - 2:45pm
thank you for answer...topic is not actauly anymore and the answer i got was absolutely correct..he is f****---happy to get to know it now and not later :)))



Edited 10/7/2006 6:07 pm ET by tired_of_pain
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Sat, 10-07-2006 - 4:50pm

You probably haven't done anything wrong.....it would appear that you're not his type.

I would also give the following advice based on your name. "Tired of Pain" would indicate that you find yourself in this type of situation too often? True? If you want to stop being hurt, you need to slow down and change your strategy.

Learn to be less impulsive. Don't go and meet a man for a second date at midnight. (Anyone who's not available until midnight is either a workaholic or seeing someone else. Both of which are bad things) And don't have sex with a guy until you know you've got a relationship.

Of course, you can break the above rules if you wish, but dating will be more risky.

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Sat, 10-07-2006 - 5:06pm

thank you for your answer aisha...actually I have never been in such situation befor when after sex i got no contact anymore. Moreover he wanted to see me in the evening the same day but i was happy he didnt invite me somewhere in the result in the evening cause i just needed rest and being alone...and may be he saw my "no wish to see him again so soon" on my face..

as for sex and being sure you are in relationships....theoretically it is true but practically you dont know if you are in or not... Im sure in most of the cases man dates few women( have sex) and in the result when one catches him more, he leave all the rest...in my case with that guy...I just wanted him soo much that I couldnt stop myself.

and you are right, he is workalcholig...

anyway..thank you again so much for your input:)