Hi all - crazy/quirky girl here...!

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Registered: 05-04-2005
Hi all - crazy/quirky girl here...!
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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 9:55am

Hi everyone,
I just wanted to stop in and say hello since I was in the neighborhood...I'm sure you all remember me driving you crazy.
Well, I wanted to let you all know that I am still with my fiance, he moved in, I'm due to have this baby any day and things are going very very well for us. We never did go to counseling but miraculously we are somehow getting better at communication. We still have our days, moments, whatever but we are really learning how to read each other and talk to each other, it's been better ever since we moved in together (yes we still had blowouts but they happen less and less now and hopefully will disappear all together).

Thanks for all the suggestions you all had and your concerns but it really looks like we will make this a happy family after all. We are so excited about our little girl arriving any day though I'm hormonal as anything right now and completely useless...!
I hope you are all doing well and I just wanted to let you know how I was if you cared to know!
Take care everyone!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-26-2006 - 1:00pm
Nice to see you again ~ I assume your member name is different because you forgot your password and that this really is Quirky_girl.


Congrats! I hope you have continued happiness.







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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-26-2006 - 1:03pm
For those who aren't familiar, Quirkygrl's previous posts can be found here:


Healing from Porn?
His move or mine?
Don't know if we're gonna make it....
Breakthrough...
Not getting much better...
Standing my ground!
Who is right/Who is wrong?
Bad combination of couch material
Might be the end
Someone tell me
My turn to be on the fence

Mothers!







~ cl-2nd_life

"You can't control the length of your life,
but you can control the width and depth."

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Registered: 05-04-2005
Mon, 10-30-2006 - 6:49pm
Hi 2nd life,
yes I think I messed up my screen name trying to sign back on...
I hope you're doing well. It's nice to see a familiar "face" around here.
Thank you for the congrats...things are going well for us, fortunately. We are really learning how to talk to each other and communicate and I think by us living together it's helped a lot as opposed to making things worse. Somehow it just seems we are able to open up with each other and discuss things in a calmer way. Yes, healing over the whole porn thing has taken a lot of time but he's put in and continues to put in a lot of effort to show me I can trust him and I believe him. We've been taking baby steps but it's progress!
The baby will be here friday unless she decides to come sooner (I hope!).
Thanks again for everything and hopefully we will have continued success in this relationship for many years to come.
Thanks again 2nd life for everything. I just wanted you to know that things were ok.
Take care!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-30-2006 - 8:20pm
Communication is critical, but it's about a lot more than just that -- it's about compatibility, preferences and how individuals prefer, choose, and believe is the correct way to live their lives.


I hope everything continues to go well for you.







~ cl-2nd_life

"You can't control the length of your life,
but you can control the width and depth."

~ Author unknown

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