In love with my wife and another woman.
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In love with my wife and another woman.
| Fri, 11-10-2006 - 7:50pm |
Is it wrong to love two different women at the same time? My wife and I decided to swing with another couple. We both have developed strong feelings for the other couple. My wife knows I really like this other women, but doesn't know I love her. What do I do? It was my wife's idea to start this swing thing now I have fallen to deep, I love both of these woman in different ways. Please help....
Shannon

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~ cl-2nd_life"You can't control the length of your life,
but you can control the width and depth."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
The fact you are asking for help makes me think you realize you can't sustain two relationships at the same time for long.
I think you know where I'm going with this question.
It is possible to love two people at the same time.
Have you checked with the Taboos board to see if others who engage in open relationships have encountered this problem and how it resolved?
You may think that my earlier post was flippant, but it was not. It's hard to know how to respond if it's not understood what you're looking for. I could assume, but assumptions are often wrong.
~ cl-2nd_life"You can't control the length of your life,
but you can control the width and depth."
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
you write: "I dont want to choose maybe that sounds greaty but that is the way I feel. "
Greedy, you mean?
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