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| Wed, 12-06-2006 - 10:15am |
I need peoples advice on what to do or say....
I was with my boyfriend before for 5 months, we split up for about a month because he couldn't forgive me for things i thought were silly e.g saying things i didn't mean. I omitted the truth on a few things like what my friends were saying bout him (they didn't like the way he treated me) aswell but only to keep from hurting his feelings. He claimed this was lying to him.
Well anyway we got back together hoping to get back the feeling we had in the beginning and to have a fresh start. Things were going good with the odd arguement but nothing to write home about. Well now he has started saying he needs space and that he doesn't think he can forgive me for the past and also everything i say or do he questionswhether i am telling the truth. I don't know what to get from this...whether he wants to break up but won't say or if he just needs time to get right in his head?
Please give me you advice! Much appreciated.

Those are questions you need to ask him.
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Whether this relationship lasts or ends, I hope you learn from it; that will serve to help you improve yourself and as a result, your future relationships. Saying things you don't really mean is not silly, it's hurtful and damaging. What you've said can't be taken back, it sticks with the person you've said things to forever. Considering them "silly" would seem to show a lack of responsibility for the words and the damage they've done. It also seems to attempt to minimize the seriousness of it. You aren't obligated to tell someone what others say about them, in fact it usually causes trouble to do so. If what your friends are saying is wrong, you shouldn't be listening to it, you should stop them when they start. If they're right, you shouldn't be in the relationship. Why would you stay with a guy who doesn't treat you right and why would you go back with him?
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