Should I stay or go?
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| Tue, 12-12-2006 - 11:26am |
Hello,
My situation is that I just started dating this guy a couple of weeks ago, and we seemed to connect right away, which is wonderful! He seems like everything I am looking for and we are both blown away that we have only known each other for a short time.
So the problem is, his best friend moved away just before we got together, and last night he was on the phone with him, and was talking about either going out there for vacation or moving out there for a year or so!!!! I know we haven't been together long at all, but I was really dissapointed to hear him say that. Is he trying to tell me something?
I don't know now if I should back off now because of this, because I don't want to invest time and my feelings with this guy if he might take off in a year or so.
Please help!!!!

Hi Kimbirdy,
Thanks for your advice!!
I am not planning on talking about this to him or asking if he will be around in a year, I just wasn't sure if I should continue this or not, knowing that there may be a chance I get hurt later on down the road.
No time for me
I need more time together
Finally......I'm Happy
Just moved in with bf and whole family
Seriously considering leaving
How do I break it off?
He won't accept that it's over
Cmaries25, are you still around?
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
Tools For Starting a Relationship
And the book:
"Are You the One For Me?" by Barbara DeAngelis
The book will teach you a lot about dating and help you in how you approach it, I know it did that for me!~ cl-2nd_life
"Experience is what you get
When you don't get what you want"
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
Hi Cl,
I am so surprised you remembered me!
Yes, after 2 1/2 years, I finally ended it with my ex. It wasn't easy, but I knew I couldn't marry him and spend my life with him. We were so close, he bought a house for us and everything!! But just before I knew I couldn't move in there, it didn't feel right, so I broke it off. SOooo much happened that I couldn't see any future anymore, so I broke it off. It was really tough, but I know I made the right decision for me, which is the most important thing.
Take your time, learn about him, enjoy today and make your decisions when you've spent enough time to make decisions. Tuck away the fact that he might move, and keep that in mind if your relationship continues, but it shouldn't make any difference to today.
Best of luck, Cmaries!
~ cl-2nd_life
"Experience is what you get
When you don't get what you want"
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"