How do I get my guy to listen?
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How do I get my guy to listen?
| Fri, 12-15-2006 - 5:04pm |
How can I talk to my guy about my sexual health? It seems whenever I talk to him about my periods he says he feels icky and it's girl talk. I have to tell him that I can't get regulated it's why I bleed after sex. He knows this I've been seeing him for a year now. I've been to doctor before over this before we even had intercourse and got some BC but it is no working still bleeding and I gave the BC time. I told him this. I am not on bc now cause going to talk to doctor, but he won't wear a condom. How many times do I have to tell him the risk is too great? Gawd ballbat please. lol

You might read through your old posts too, even though they may not have been posted that long ago, many find reading their old posts very helpful and enlightening; they're able to recognize situations more clearly. I hope you find it helpful too:
Manners when dining outCareer Stress
posted in April, with an update thread last week:Hey I posted about this back in April and it's still a conflict with my guy...And a reply in Iv_aisha's thread about men who don't plan outings and nice things:
Yeah kind of makes you feel like a toy doesn't it?...
I'm posting this because I think it's important to your situation)I'll be back tomorrow night!
~ cl-2nd_life
"Experience is what you get
When you don't get what you want"
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"
Quite simply, if he won't wear a condom, there is no sex, period. It's his choice. But beyond that, I think you'd do well to consider these red flags that this is not a good or appropriate relationship to be in. You deserve to be treated better, none of this is acceptable.
~ cl-2nd_life
"Experience is what you get
When you don't get what you want"
~ Author unknown
"Ignoring the facts
does not change the facts"