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OLD - Your Longest Rel'nship
| Mon, 01-24-2005 - 5:12pm |
From the posts here, it seems that getting to date #3 is quite
| Mon, 01-24-2005 - 5:12pm |
From the posts here, it seems that getting to date #3 is quite
What is the longest relationship you've had with someone you met via OLD?
7 months (I'm not going to count the LDR because it's weird and up in the air, even though it's technically gone on for longer)
Who initiated contact first?
Me
How much time passed between the first contact and the first face-to-face meeting?
2-3 days
Are you/were you dating exclusively? If yes, how long had you been dating when you decided to be exclusive?
We expressly agreed to (including a discussion of taking down profiles), on our 2nd date, but it turned out he was lying about that.
If you're no longer together, how did it end?
See above.
If you're no longer together, do you still have contact with each other?
No.
How many of your reln'ships that began with meeting someone online lasted more than...one month? a bunch
two months? I don't know...3, 4?
three months? 2 or 3.
Sheri
What is the longest relationship you've had with someone you met via OLD?
One was almost a year and another was 10 months or so.
Who initiated contact first?
I posted the ad, but they both responded.
How much time passed between the first contact and the first face-to-face meeting?
Two weeks, approximately for both of them.
Are you/were you dating exclusively? If yes, how long had you been dating when you decided to be exclusive?
the one year guy I started dating exclusively immediately. The 10 month guy, it was about 3-4 weeks.
If you're no longer together, how did it end?
10 month---the infatuation period ended and realization struck that we weren't really compatible. A year later, he came out of the closet and told his best friend he was in love with him.
One year---he said he hadn't been in love with me for a couple of months by the time we broke it off.
If you're no longer together, do you still have contact with each other?
Nope, no contact with either one---10 month because I started dating his best friend, which led to him coming out. One year decided there was no way he could be friends with me and has thus moved back to the east coast.
How many of your reln'ships that began with meeting someone online lasted more than...one month? two months? three months?
I've had 3-4 that have lasted a month to two months...the rest have been 1-3 dates.
Michelle
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What is the longest relationship you've had with someone you met via OLD?
5 months
Who initiated contact first?
Him
How much time passed between the first contact and the first face-to-face meeting?
About a week
Are you/were you dating exclusively? If yes, how long had you been dating when you decided to be exclusive?
He was dating me exclusively. I was very upfront and told him I was not exclusive with him. Both profiles were up.
If you're no longer together, how did it end?
I ended it, he was too clingy and very needy and I didn't want to be exclusive with him.
If you're no longer together, do you still have contact with each other?
Yes, he refuses to give it up. He even winked at me on match.com the other day. My first wink and it's an ex. woohoo!!
How many of your reln'ships that began with meeting someone online lasted more than...
one month? 2-3 maybe
two months? 3
three months? 3
1. What is the longest relationship you've had with someone you met via OLD?
4 months
2. Who initiated contact first? He did
3. How much time passed between the first contact and the first face-to-face meeting?
4 days
4. Are you/were you dating exclusively? If yes, how long had you been dating when you decided to be exclusive?
We were exclusive from the beginning. We both removed our profiles. It was almost
like love at first site (I know that's sounds corny)
5. If you're no longer together, how did it end? Horribly,
Out of the blue he left a voice message saying he didn't have the time or energy for
a serious relationship. It really broke my heart.
6. If you're no longer together, do you still have contact with each other?
I tried but he didn't respond
7. How many of your reln'ships that began with meeting someone online lasted more than...one month? - 2
two months? - 1
three months? - 1
1. What is the longest relationship you've had with someone you met via OLD?
About 2 years.
2. Who initiated contact first?
He did.
3. How much time passed between the first contact and the first face-to-face meeting?
About 2 and a half months.
4. Are you/were you dating exclusively? If yes, how long had you been dating when you decided to be exclusive?
I am currently dating exclusively, we were together for about a month before bringing up the exclusive talk.
With regards to my 2 year relationship mentioned above, it was pretty much an instant exclusive thing.
5. If you're no longer together, how did it end?
My current relationship is still going well. My 2 year relationship ended because our life goals had diverged too much.
6. If you're no longer together, do you still have contact with each other?
Nope.
7. How many of your reln'ships that began with meeting someone online lasted more than...one month? two months? three months?
Three. All three lasted more than 3 months.