Confused HELP

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Registered: 01-25-2005
Confused HELP
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Tue, 01-25-2005 - 5:21pm
I'm 18 and I've been going out with this guy for like 6 months and we've known each other for two years, but we only go out like once a month, and he hardly ever calls me. And my parents just don't like him. So, is he trying to break up with me or is he just really busy or is he just intimidated by my parents? I really like him, he's the first guy I've ever gone out with, but I'm sick of this and I either want him in my life or out. What should I do?
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 01-25-2005 - 6:10pm

you are still young and should not rush things.
Try to meet other people from school, make a lot of friends and through them I hope you will meet someone more available. From experience, I know if I m busy but interested in someone I will always make time to see them. If I m not that interested I keep it to what life brings. I m sure you will meet someone nicer , someone who appreciates you more in his life. Leave him. You are still young and will meet too many great guys trust me! if he is the first then he will not stay around to be the last (not when you are this young :~)
Have some fun and enjoy your young age with friends and a caring boyfriend

J.

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Registered: 12-10-2004
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 2:11am

A) You should go ask questions like this on boards that are designed for that purpose.

B) You should give up on the guy, because he's totally not into you and is stringing you along. You're young and this is a time to learn how to react to how men treat you; if you get into a pattern of allowing them to walk on you and treat you like this (which is to say, treat you like crap) they're going to do it for years and years to come.

Break up with him, move on. Good luck.