Clueless question re: first meeting
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Clueless question re: first meeting
| Tue, 01-25-2005 - 7:42pm |
I've had a variety of responses from OLD. From nothing to an wink, a few emails, then ... well, lets just say I've figured out what "ghosting" is. Anyway, there is one guy with whom I've emailed back & forth, had a couple of telephone conversations and now we are meeting in person for coffee this week. He seems nice enough and we've had good conversations so far. So we'll see.
Now, since this is the first guy I'm meeting from OLD I'm wondering what to do when I meet him face to face for the first time. Would you give him a quick kiss, kiss on the cheek, hug, handshake, hello, or just hang back and see what he does?
I'm not too sure why I'm hung up on this little detail but I just feel so clueless.
Thanks, N

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I think that a friendly handshake and a smile would be quite appropriate. Of course, this is partly contingent upon what he does, anyway.
Enjoy.. I'm sure you'll continue to find things to talk about. :-)
glimmer
>>In no instance should the contact be under the bra. I think over is ok though depending on how long you've emailed and whether you've talked on the phone.<<
LMAO!!! LG, have you've been stuck in the house with the kids? You're getting to be quite the character!
Thanks for the help!
That's what is so great about this place - I can ask this embarrassing question that I couldn't ask in person.
Note to self: handshake good, bra contact bad. (better not get those two confused!)
-N
Dang! I been doing it wrong all along........no wonder!
Lisa
I think it would also depend on how much talking/emailing/phoning you've done so far, and how close to him you feel.
In NO situation, though, would it be good to walk up to him and do the Anna Nicole Smith self-grope-molestation thing while saying "dooo yoooo liiike my bodddy?"
Unless, you know, you're into that sort of thing. LOL
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