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| Thu, 01-27-2005 - 12:00am |
Checking in with an update on me & MG...
We've hit the one-month mark and things seem to be going well. We've been out several more times and the sparks just keep flying. Conversation generally flows well and the moments of silence are not uncomfortable. We've had some general talks about goals in life, career, money, living in a warmer climate someday... ;-) We've traded a few backrubs, and there's a spot in the middle of my back that no one's ever been able to touch without it tensing up - and he has the perceptive, intuitive touch to get that muscle to relax. That to me is a very good sign. We fooled around a bit the other day which was great fun, but I'm really trying to hold back on more until I get a better idea of whether this can last. It's hard because the chemistry is just outstanding, but safety (physical & emotional) comes first.
Tonight I casually mentioned I was "thinking about taking my profile down for a while since there's not much out there right now... but it almost seems like a waste since I paid for 3 months worth!" (jokingly) He smiled and nodded like he got what I was saying but didn't say much else about it. So the idea is out there and I guess I get to wait and see if/when he brings it up again. I'm not going to push it if he's not ready to go there.
He's made several mentions of "you'll have to meet this friend" and "we should go to that restaurant again sometime" and "you wanna see that movie with me when it comes out?" so I take it there is at least SOME interest in continuing to see each other for a while. I'm trying not to get ahead of myself and start reading too much into it though. Whatever happens (or doesn't happen) for valentine's may be a deciding factor.
So there ya go, folks, it *IS* possible to meet someone you click with through OLD! =)
Jen

Cool...
Hope it keeps working....
claribeth
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Glad to hear things are going well, mama, but be careful not to read too much into comments about "the future". I'm one to talk -- I can't tell you how many times a guy has said something that implied we'd be together for at least the foreseeable future, I get all excited (esp. if I really like him) and then, poof! Ghost City.
I had a nice first date last night and he talked about my meeting his friends, all the places we could travel to, Valentine's Day, blah blah. Even tho I like him, all I kept thinking was, whoa, cowboy, slow down! It was only the first date.
But back to my original point, after I've been seeing someone for a month or so, I have to be very careful to retain a healthy skepticism about "future" comments, easier said than done, I know.
yahhh thats great PM. Im glad things are going well with MG> Just keep having fun. Sounds like a great guy and isn't afraid to talk about future things together. Good sign.
Remember to take the profile down for you, not expecting him. Keep your options open still PM... just for a lil whle longer ;)
I'm new here, so I don't know your story.
But it sounds like you two are having a good time together. Yayyy!! I'm very happy for you. :) Enjoy yourself!!!
Take care.