Don't ya wanna know WHY sometimes???
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| Sat, 01-29-2005 - 11:10am |
WHY didn't it work out? Why didn't you have any contact again after that first meeting? WHY WHY WHY!?
Have you ever then emailed just to ask why? Then I suppose ya don't get a reply, correct?
Have you ever then just CALLED just to ask why? But then ya'd fall into the RED FLAGS category, huh.
That's what I wanna do. Email and then call.
I'm really sorry, I feel like I am board hogging..... I'm normally a very emotionally stable and secure person, very sure of myself and I consider myself extremely attractive. I think that is why I am SO NOT USED TO this sort of behavior in the opposite sex....
Okay, so I did email and ask why, and haven't heard back (SURPRISED!?!?!?) and now I want to call..... and that would give me yet another red flag.
geez, just my emailing was a red flag I'm now finding out!
I wish I had that red flag list about two days ago. I wouldn't have sent it.
Maybe I should change my userID here to RED FLAG CITY. I think I will....
look for me in the future as "redflagcity". not kidding.

wannasucceed_2004...
Pianoguy is only guessing here, but do you think that your "enthusiasm" during your dates make the men you're with a little nervous?
1. If you go back to those who've rejected you -- then guess what. You've just given them a chance to REJECT YOU AGAIN!
2. Your main problem is not that you were rejected - it's that you are making ASSUMPTIONS about WHY - when the why may not have anything at all to do with your looks, personality or past.
Signed,
Dr. Phil
PS - It's always a waste of time to go back to the rejector. Even if they make up some B/S excuse they ultimately almost 100% wind up rejecting you again in some form or another.
N E X T ... I usually find that to be cold but I'm learning that it's okay in the dating world.
Lg1964,
Your last email was great! I always want a reason myself. I never ask for one, but I make some really horrible assumptions. Although I haven't demanded a reason, your reasons why it is a bad idea are excellent and I'll be sure to pass them along to friends who also ask why.
Thanks!!