This is so pathetic, it's funny
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| Mon, 01-31-2005 - 7:40pm |
Maybe it's me, but has anythng like this ever happened to anyone else? If it only happened once, I wouldn't think twice about it, but it's happened three times in the past few weeks.....is there a pattern here?
After a coffee date, I've sent a nice, innocuous email to my date thanking them for the coffee and conversation and expressing an interest in getting to know them better, if the feeling was mutual. Immediately thereafter, they hid their profile and if they were on the same internet browser, I no longer see them on my buddy list (although I am sure that we are online at the same time). I suspect I've been blocked.
Uh, I am getting the feeling like I must be some derranged, unhinged cyber-stalker who won't get the hint if they don't respond and won't take "no" for an answer. At least that's what they're treating me like. I may be a lot of things, but stupid isn't one of them. If they don't respond, I assume they're not interested and move on. Is it really necessary to go to such lengths to make sure I don't contact them? The only times I ever actually block someone is if they are becoming a pest or they creep me out in some way.
Has this ever happened to anyone else? I don't think I act anything but normal on a date.
Thoughts?
Ann

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That's ridiculous! But you're obviously paying for what someone else has done to them in the past.
FWIW, I don't send "thank you" emails anymore. I thank them sincerely while I'm ON the date, show enthusiasm and interest (assuming I am interested!), and then let them take the lead in contacting me.
Sheri
LG, you always have a way of cracking me up, underpants model or not.
Thanks....Ann
Interesting about the thank you! I probably would have done that ;)
mental note: add "no thank you's" to list of rules.
Thanks Libra,
It really kind of just makes me shake my head in disbelief. Human beings do some bizarre things. What really is cracking me up, is that I have all of these "gentlemen's" phone numbers. Can you just picture them frantically checking their caller ID every time the phone rings? :-)
Ann
Great idea, Sheri. I'm going to do that (or not do that, as the case may be) the next time. Assuming there IS a next time.
Ann
It's a cruel world. I'm sorry, Ann. You're doing so well at getting yourself out there and taking some punches, I applaud you! Oh resilient one - please don't give up. One day your prince will come......
Lisa
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