re-spark?

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Registered: 02-01-2005
re-spark?
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Tue, 02-01-2005 - 7:11pm

I met this guy online, and we have engaged in some really great conversations via IM. I found him very witty and entertaining, and we've had a couple of intimate conversations.

Well a couple days ago, our conversation turned into a heated argument about some minor thing, which both of us overreacted to.

We've made up, but the couple of conversations we've had since then haven't gone anywhere, (you know, the standard, "-hi, -hi, -what are you doing? -nothing, you? -same" followed by silence)

I really enjoyed our conversations, is there anything I could say to him to respark our conversation?

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Registered: 04-29-2003
In reply to: sumcabbage
Tue, 02-01-2005 - 8:05pm

If this is how he is now and it’s only IM I say run! I use to go for the guys with a feisty personality similar to mine but have found someone a bit more easy going is a better match for me. With M when we do debate it’s a debate not an argument. Some guys can’t handle it when you have a different point of view and it heats up, know what I mean? Just a thought...either way, good luck!

PS He might be stubborn......

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Registered: 01-29-2005
In reply to: sumcabbage
Tue, 02-01-2005 - 9:52pm
Move ON!!!! That sort of person is not worth it. JMHO though....
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Registered: 02-01-2005
In reply to: sumcabbage
Tue, 02-01-2005 - 10:46pm
yeah, except it was sort of my fault.....I totally overreacted first, and then he overreacted to my overreaction....
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Registered: 05-16-2004
In reply to: sumcabbage
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 6:02am

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..Thank You. More news as this story develops. We now return you to your regulary scheduled broadcast of "How The Law Of Nature Applies To Everyone But Me and My Guy" already in progress....

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Registered: 01-29-2005
In reply to: sumcabbage
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 9:00am

Yeah, I thought perhaps that was it. But IMO that is why you should move on. Because *I* think that it is OKAY for us womenfolk to overreact sometimes, especially if UR like me. But "us" type of gals should not be with overreactive, pouty, childish, nor hold a grudge types of guys! We need to be with the laid back, "like water off a ducks back" type of guys.

Trust me on this one.