Ghost sends email

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Ghost sends email
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Sun, 02-06-2005 - 7:16pm

A guy ghosted on me few weeks ago and made me really disappointed with OLD since he seemed super interested... anyhow this same guy just sent out an email to about 50 people invinting them to his first special Visual Effects presentation (show) at a club in 2 weeks from now.
He sent the invitation to 50 email addresses so I m thinking he accidentally hit my name or maybe sent the invitation to all people in his address book and I m still there.

my gut feeling is to ignore this email. Although I would be interested in meeting him again and knowing what happened...What do you think?

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sun, 02-06-2005 - 7:41pm

I say go with the gut instinct, it's there for a reason. He can't talk to you directly, but you're on his mailing list? Blecch. Personally, I'd be offended enough to block him.

Of course, whatever you decide to do is your call.

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Sun, 02-06-2005 - 7:55pm

Agree

weirdos!
It could also be he is interested in securing a large audience for his first show!!!
:P

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Registered: 12-10-2004
Sun, 02-06-2005 - 11:13pm

I'd only go if the SHOW interests you.

The guy, he's already rejected you in a nasty way once. Why would you give him another chance to do that again?

I've become a believer that ghosts do not deserve another chance. Someone who sends an email saying something, anything, they deserve another chance.

For example, the gal that cancelled the second date on me but at least had the courtesy to do so- I'd go out with her again.

The one that ghosted for no reason at all and didn't really have any excuse when she recontacted me? NEXT!