Here is another stupid OLD experience
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| Sun, 02-06-2005 - 8:56pm |
I was on a dating website and found a very good locking guy online. He lives , however, 5 hour drive from where I live.(But he visits since he works as a pilot)
So I thought I d chat with him. I started the conversation and he responded on Lavalife, we exchanged backstage passes and he told me "Your pics are exquisite. You re v. pretty". Then I run out of chatting credits on the site so I sent him my MSN account to add to chat on MSN instead.
He did add me but said that he is on the phone with mom so we cant chat.
I never chatted with him aftereards but one day I was online I tried to look him up he was gone. One day later, while showing my roomate the people who responded to me. (logged in under roomate's account) I did a search on him and found his account active, logged out then logged in again as myself and did search I did not find his profile. This happens when you block somebody on Lava. I m confused if he wants to block me, why did he say he is interested in chatting, why did he add me and give me his name...
Is it peopl feel urged to respond even if they are not interested especially when it is live chat not just emailing...

I'm sorry to tell you this, but Lavalife is "sleeze ball central" I was on Lavalife recently and the only thing I EVER met was guys who were looking to just have a quickie!! It is FILLED with married men looking for action on the side. I say be glad he blocked you, cause he was probably a nutjob!!
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>>This happens when you block somebody on Lava. I m confused if he wants to block me, why did he say he is interested in chatting, why did he add me and give me his name...
Is it peopl feel urged to respond even if they are not interested especially when it is live chat not just emailing...<<
I do think that people feel more of an impulse to chat or communicate when it's live.
I think what probably happened was at first he thought he wanted to chat, and so he did a bit, but then when he had a minute to think about it he decided (for whatever reason) that it wasn't working for him so he bailed.
Oh well. NEXT!
His wife found out.
Lisa