talk online and in person but not phone

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2005
talk online and in person but not phone
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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 11:39pm
i met this guy online about 1 month ago. we were really busy with school so we would talk when we could (it was fairly often though). i told him tht he should call me but he wasn't ready to talk on the phone so we never spoke on the phone. last week, out of fluke, we ended up meeting for hot chocolates and it was good. we were in to each other the same way we were into each other online and we had am amazing night. is it weird that we talk online and in person and not the phone? usually it would be e-mail/online, phone then meet but we skipped that phone part. we only talk on the phone if we're on our way to meet each other and need directions etc. if i have a relationship with this person, i have a feeling we won't talk on the phone and only online and person.
is this normal?
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 03-30-2005 - 9:03am
Sure it's normal. I've seen a lot of people on this board that say they don't like talking on the phone and avoid it as much as possible or will use it ONLY to set up dates with their SO/OLD meet. Also, a lot of guys don't like to talk on the phone (and women too). Nothing wrong with that! If you two like each other, get along and things seem to be going well otherwise, don't sweat the phone thing. It's not a big deal. Just have fun getting to know each other in person - that is the best way to get to know someone anyway!

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