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I think I'm done
| Sat, 04-02-2005 - 10:07am |
After 6 months on eH, I finally met someone on Thursday.
| Sat, 04-02-2005 - 10:07am |
After 6 months on eH, I finally met someone on Thursday.
It's not that I am unhappy in the least.
Linda - that is awesome! I love your attitude. And the thing is, I think I am feeling the same way right now and that is why I am just enjoying hanging out with R. He is a great guy, we like each other, enjoy each other's company and enjoy the making out (hee, hee), but I do have a lot in my life to keep me occupied and be grateful for. I have great friends and family and a good job that I enjoy. I don't have to have a boyfriend or husband to make my life complete. Would I like to be married someday? Probably but it is not the be all end all of my life. I also like my alone time and my space. I like having my friends when I want but also my own time when I want. I like hanging out with R on our own schedule without having to worry about expectations and "where is this going next" or anyone else's ideas about what we should be doing when, where and why.
Good luck Linda! It sounds like you have a good view on all of this and I hope it works out well for you!
Hi Tammy,
EXCELLENT marks on the attitude, and I am there with y'all. I don't think I am 'looking' that hard for a relationship,but it Sure seems to find me! Every time I turn that corner into one of the weeks/week-ends with the 'will he call?" "does he like me a lot?" "what next"-age, I roll my eyes, shake my head and the cry "here we go again!" is heard throughout the halls....and I wonder WHY?
Like you all, I consider myself VERY lucky to have the good life I have. I have been dating someone for the last 2 weeks and it has gone very well, but I watch, analyze and second-guess myself at every turn, and he has been Wonderful, so why do I do that? I gotta blame OLD...it has really made me Jaded. Of course, I am responsible for My feelings and actions, and I fight being jaded, tooth and nail and Long to be "normal" whatever That may be! Luckily, I jabber these dramas to my female pals Only, so the men know Nothing of it and think I am smooth and calm, 24/7! God Bless Chicks!
So, for all of us young ladies who have the kids we desired, good jobs, nice place to live and a good life, in general, let's take a breath together! Exhaaaaaaaaale......Here's to letting life/love/laughter find YOU (and all of us!).
Best of Everything!
truly,
Cupcake
Linda... you go, girl!
It's cliche, but you know sometimes when you stop looking for something, there it is.
As an aside, Vexer, your new pic on the website is fabulous!!!
Tracy