Maybe this Aint so bad.....

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Registered: 10-26-2004
Maybe this Aint so bad.....
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 2:44pm

Hi Y'all,

Just an update from Planet Cupcake. Like so many of you, I have found a lot of negative people/experiences/attitudes on OLD. For the last 2 weeks, I have been dating Tall Man; the one that saw me near Val Day in a nice restaurant, but I did not see him, we were both on dates. Then,after some emails and a phone conversation, we had a date and he cancelled it, as he felt he needed to end something that had been in the works for a few months, so he did not want to get me in the middle of that. (thank you, Cupcakes only do One 'middle'--creamy filling!).

Three weeks later, he calls me and we begin dating.He told me that he could not get me off is mind, once he had seen me. Things have been going SO well it scares my little boxers off. I know that I am a bit jaded from OLD, but I guess that is not a Bad thing, actually. Never hurts to be careful. WILL I be able to fall in love with someone,after all of the hard lessons I have learned? Well, like anything, time will tell.

So far, way excellent. News at 11.

Truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 02-07-2005
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 3:02pm

Hi Cupcake,

Great news about you and Tall Man! I was hesitant at first when I started dating my guy regularly, but I have just taken it day by day with no expectations or plans for the future - just enjoying the moments! Sure there's always the possibility of getting involved and getting hurt, but it's better than NOT taking the chance with somebody that could have turned into a good thing and you'd have missed out completely. You gotta be in the game to win the game! Good luck to you and have a great trip!

Sunshine

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 9:08pm
Oh Cupcake, I am so happy for you! Tell Mr. Tall that your friends say that you are the best woman he could have ever gotten!
I am still digging through mud an rubble. I have 2 quality guys lined up - both younger men :) One is Mr. Smart from "for your entertainment" post and another one I have been talking to for about a week and we are meeting next Wed.
I suppose its spring time :)
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Registered: 12-29-2004
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 10:58pm

Hi Cupcake,

I'm sooo glad for you!! We both had bad experiences and you met a real nice one! Yeah, telling you to suspend due to some reasons sounds fair and much better than the guy who kept you wondering. He sounds really sincre to me! Good luck! You're also the funniest one on the planet, you tell him your friends said that!! :)

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 04-08-2005 - 7:40am
I'm so happy for you, Cupcake. It's nice to hear when those of you who have done OLD for a length of time with no success, finally finds something out of it, that even MAY be "IT". Have fun, and keep us posted!