Just out of curiosity....with all the criticism, nastiness, cattiness, and lack of class that your...err...friend seems to be fond of demonstrating....
I agree Stacey, this friend is not really a friend. She may think she is looking out for your best interest but I don't think she really thinks that. I think she is being mean, manipulative and petty. You are the one that is with Ricky on a day to day basis. If he was doing something to hurt you, you are a smart girl and would get out of the relationship. Your friend needs to learn to mind her own business! If you're happy, she needs to be happy for you. She is risking the friendship over something that is total speculation and not true.
I should have mentioned, but don't think I did...but when she got in my face like that, she was trying to make it seem like she was kidding....but I still think it was rude.
Well, she may be a long time friend, but she is certainly not acting like one right now. My advice is to be polite and cordial to her but nothing more. Do not tell her anything, do not hang out with her outside of your dancing activities and make it very clear that you are distancing yourself from her. I think it is the best thing. There is no reason for you to get nasty or mean (not that you would) but be cool and aloof and keep her at a distance. She has turned into a toxic friend and no one needs that.
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Stacey....
Just out of curiosity....with all the criticism, nastiness, cattiness, and lack of class that your...err...friend seems to be fond of demonstrating....
HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY CONSIDER HER "A FRIEND?"
Give her the "silent treatment" for a few weeks.
Hi CGUN-
I am sorry to hear your "friend' is such a PIA.
Why does she have his IM?
Sparkle! Where have you been?!? :-)
I agree Stacey, this friend is not really a friend. She may think she is looking out for your best interest but I don't think she really thinks that. I think she is being mean, manipulative and petty. You are the one that is with Ricky on a day to day basis. If he was doing something to hurt you, you are a smart girl and would get out of the relationship. Your friend needs to learn to mind her own business! If you're happy, she needs to be happy for you. She is risking the friendship over something that is total speculation and not true.
Thanks, everyone.
Hey, CGUN -
This does not sound like the behavior of a FRIEND. If a man was treating you that way, you sure as heck would either let him have it or dump him!
Tread lightly, darlin'!!
Tracy
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Grounds for ending a friendship. Your "friend" is a psycho wrt you and Rick!
amjay
I should have mentioned, but don't think I did...but when she got in my face like that, she was trying to make it seem like she was kidding....but I still think it was rude.
But what does wrt mean?
Oh...one other thing....this friend is also very involved in the same group of people I am through dancing.
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