I am a little bit confused

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Registered: 10-28-2003
I am a little bit confused
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Mon, 07-04-2005 - 1:54am
Ok here it goes. I went out with this guy today I mean everything was fine we talked we laughed and everything. At the end he tells me that we need to go because he agreed to go to the club with couple of his friends. I said alright lets go and he walked me home then he told me that he will call me tomorrow. I asked him are you sure you gonna call or you are just saying that and he told me that he will call tomorrow. The thing is I am a little confused here about everything. I used to go on a date with guys and when they said they'll call they didn't. So please people can you explain me how the guys mind really works. Thank you.
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Registered: 07-28-2003
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 2:01am

It doesn't matter what they "say"...

It matters what they do.

Just because a guy says he'll call doesn't mean he will and you have to get used to that.

Also, just a pointer, if he says he'll call, just say "ok, looking forward to it." there's no need to sound insecure and ask if he really intends to.

Because you know, he may intend to until you start sounding desperate and needy.

How old is this guy and how old are you? I'm just curious.

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Registered: 10-28-2003
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 2:12am
I am 22 and he is 26 I mean we have been talking on the phone a lot of times you know i mean two to three times a days. Whenever he went somewhere he usually called me to wish good night but they time he just told me that he will call me tomorrow. Strange.
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Registered: 07-28-2003
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 6:40pm

Sweetgirl, try not to judge the validity of your relationship on phone calls.

It really doesn't matter... what matters is how he treats you and how you feel about yourself when you're with him.

:)