friends

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Registered: 05-27-2005
friends
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 7:29am
From now on, when I meet a guy from online, I'm going to look at him as a friend instead of a relationship right away. I think I'd be more relaxed by doing this and there wouldn't be so much pressure on me. I know there shouldn't be so much pressure anyway, but that's just me. I'm a tense person at the best of times and I'm trying to work on that too.
That's probably how a lot of you go into these meets too, isn't it? Looking at the other person as a friend instead of anything serious.


Edited 7/6/2005 7:30 am ET ET by dream_angel2005
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Registered: 10-27-2003
In reply to: dream_angel2005
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:25am
IMHO all good relationships are built on good friendships. Therefore, I think you can't go wrong going into a meet thinking you could possibly make a friend. Personally, I think it takes a lot of the pressure off, you relax and your true self begins to shine thru. That's what men and women are interested in meeting, someone who they can feel relaxed with from the start.