NO ATTRACTION PLEASE HELP!
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| Wed, 07-06-2005 - 10:12pm |
I could really use any advice from someone right now...
I have been "seeing" this guy online for a few months now. I am in ontario and he is in michigan and we hit it off in practically every single way. We talk for hours, miss each other, and can see a future. The problem? I just seen his picture (actually he sent me a video of himself as an attachment) and I can see I am not attracted to him at all. I mean not even close. I guess he was pretty honest about how he described himself but my mind led me in a completely different direction with how he looked. So, I suppose it's my fault but now what do I do. He expects a picture in return now (and rightly so) but I don't think this is going to work out. I know I am judging a lot on one video, but it is amazing how much the video actually shows.
I would love to keep him as a friend but doubt that is going to be so easy now. Please, I'd appreciate any help. I'm not trying to be dishonest with him and don't want to play games.
Thank you so much for your help!!

I would first ask you... why you waited so long to see his pic?
I think you should just trust your gut... if you honestly don't think it will work out, then don't push it any further... especially since you don't live close to each other.
Good luck.