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yep, as I thought
| Mon, 07-11-2005 - 5:55pm |
The lawyer man just called and we chatted a bit and then he said that he has doubts. He said that his gut feel tells him that he is not sure about us. I said that I felt the same way and said that "perhaps it would work better for him to date someone younger and without children" and he said "yes".
In the middle of the conversation I felt he started having doubts about his decision so he goes "I really like you", than 2 minutes later "I will miss you" and I said "why?" and than he goes "maybe we will get together again sometime" and I said "I don't do that and you should stick to your gut feel". I said "remember I told you that I never go back, only forward".. He was all wishy/washy. I told him that he should stop dancing around and stick to his decision.
Man, what a trip! See, my gut feel was right too! You live and you learn!
Edited 7/11/2005 6:14 pm ET ET by ivosoh
In the middle of the conversation I felt he started having doubts about his decision so he goes "I really like you", than 2 minutes later "I will miss you" and I said "why?" and than he goes "maybe we will get together again sometime" and I said "I don't do that and you should stick to your gut feel". I said "remember I told you that I never go back, only forward".. He was all wishy/washy. I told him that he should stop dancing around and stick to his decision.
Man, what a trip! See, my gut feel was right too! You live and you learn!
Edited 7/11/2005 6:14 pm ET ET by ivosoh

Ivosoh, I'm sorry that it didn't work out with Lawyer guy. You liked him I know, but you were smart to listen to your gut instincts. You do live and learn but that doesn't always make it easy. Hang in there, there is a guy out there that is right for you and will accept you unconditionally and realize he's found a real prize and treat you as such. As we always say.......NEXT!!
All the best,
Libra
Bummer – better to have found out now than later. Remain positive though – you’ll find a good guy!!
I had to let B go and he took it very well and I basically said that I didn’t want a commitment from him and after 6 weeks I wanted to keep dating so to be fair its best we parted ways and he appreciated my honesty. Things are well with A – see below – wishing u the same kind of luck! That’s what dating is about – trying um on for size and see how they fit!
SP
He started rumbling in the middle of the conversation when I told him that it was fine and that he should stick to his decision. I clearly felt hesitation in his voice. Well, he made his bed so he should sleep in it.
Edited 7/13/2005 6:16 pm ET ET by ivosoh
Good for you – your strong! Sorry it didn’t work out.
SP
Hi, I am sorry it did not work out for you... don't know if it's any consolation, but my seemingly great new guy did the same thing to me yesterday! I find it a little bit humiliating, but it will be fine. Keep telling yourself there's nôthing wrong with you, it's just that he wasn't right.
NEXT!
Clem xx
The more I digest this, the more angry I get.
I find his proposition to me VERY offensive - it's like "I don't want to date you" but I would like to "hang out" with you because you are just so cute and we had so much fun together and hopefully he get some commitment- free sex.
What a sleazeball! NEXT!!
Edited 7/13/2005 2:38 pm ET ET by ivos2004
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