Yea, glad to hear it!!! Hope date #3 goes great as well!!!
But I have to ask, due to your previous posts about him...you said he'd emailed you after the date...has the man actually picked up the phone and *called* you yet ;-)???
I wish I knew the answer to your question. I agonized over the lawyer-man because he was on-line while we were dating. It's very frustrating! I suspect your guy is having other plans for this weekend. :(
That wouldn't work for me...I would go absolutely BONKERS going back and forth trying to coordinate schedules like you were by email. I'd be like, pick up the G-D phone and let's settle this, already, LOL! I don't know that I'd say it's a red flag, exactly, but I'd be wondering why he was hiding behind email...that would just strike me as weird.
And as far as him being online...that is just one of the fun parts ;-) of using this dating medium...and you kind of have to either get used to it, or not use it, I think. I personally don't see anything wrong with him being online, because you have only had two dates and are (most likely) far from being ready to date exclusively. And you're on there, right??? So what's the dif?
Well, he could have a sinister reason for not using the phone. But, to play Devil's Advocate, I don't like long phone conversations because I'm hard of hearing & I got sick of saying "what?" all the time. So, I use the phone for quick info or emergencies only. Most guys are cool with this, but a few have been put off by it. But, if a guy can't respect me, then it's "NEXT!" If you want to know why he won't call you, just ask him.
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I'm so happy for you. You were having a STRING of major flakes - hopefully the wait will have paid off. woo - hoo - have fun!!!
SP
hello Sparkle-
It is about time....he he he.
CL-Truewild1969
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That's wonderful news Sparkle! Good luck and keep us posted.
All the best,
Libra
I'm also happy for you Sparkle. You deserve it, and I hope things continue to go well. Please keep us updated.
Eric
Yea, glad to hear it!!! Hope date #3 goes great as well!!!
But I have to ask, due to your previous posts about him...you said he'd emailed you after the date...has the man actually picked up the phone and *called* you yet ;-)???
Sheri
Hi Sheri-
No he's never called me.
I suspect your guy is having other plans for this weekend. :(
That wouldn't work for me...I would go absolutely BONKERS going back and forth trying to coordinate schedules like you were by email. I'd be like, pick up the G-D phone and let's settle this, already, LOL! I don't know that I'd say it's a red flag, exactly, but I'd be wondering why he was hiding behind email...that would just strike me as weird.
And as far as him being online...that is just one of the fun parts ;-) of using this dating medium...and you kind of have to either get used to it, or not use it, I think. I personally don't see anything wrong with him being online, because you have only had two dates and are (most likely) far from being ready to date exclusively. And you're on there, right??? So what's the dif?
Sheri
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