I know the agony! Don't call/e-mail him. If he is interested at all - he will contact you. EVERY time I had contacted a guy - I lived to regret it. I know it's hard and we give them all sort of excuses but the bottom line is - if he wants too - he will call. P.S. isn't it OLD fun?
This is exactly why you have many lined up at once and not put all your eggs in one basket. If you were booked socially, you'd hardly notice anyone falling off the radar.
I think I remember LG saying match takes awhile to catch itself up as far as activity goes. Don't worry about that!! I think I would have emailed him, too. Now the ball is in his court. Did you mention anything about Thursday in your email?? I think I would have. Something like "7pm Thursday, right!??"... I truly hope you hear from him. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!!
The problem with you contacting him is that if he does contact you again, you don't know if it's because he's really interested in you, or if he's just being polite and getting back to you. That's why I prefer to let the guy initiate contact early on...so that I have a more accurate indication of his interest level. So, it's not a bad thing that you contacted him, it just means you'll have uncertainty if he does get back to you.
The match thing means that he was probably last online on Sunday. So yesterday would have been "within 24 hours", whereas as of today, Sunday is "within 3 days" (i.e., he was last online more than 24 hours ago, but less than 72 hours ago).
Sparkle, it's time to say NEXT. There will be another one. In the moments of doubt - I keep telling myself that it will only take 1 right person to make everything all right and it does help me feel better :) On bad days I still think of Swiss Cheese not that I would want him back or anything. I think one of the reasons I was so crazy for this lawyer man is because he reminded me of N. aka Swiss Cheese.
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EVERY time I had contacted a guy - I lived to regret it. I know it's hard and we give them all sort of excuses but the bottom line is - if he wants too - he will call.
P.S. isn't it OLD fun?
DON'T KILL ME...
Aww, thanks Donna.
Match takes a while to catch up to itself.
Why are you keeping tabs of him on match? Why are you so anxious about him?? RELAX
Oh
My
Gawd
Are there any other prospects at all?
The problem with you contacting him is that if he does contact you again, you don't know if it's because he's really interested in you, or if he's just being polite and getting back to you. That's why I prefer to let the guy initiate contact early on...so that I have a more accurate indication of his interest level. So, it's not a bad thing that you contacted him, it just means you'll have uncertainty if he does get back to you.
The match thing means that he was probably last online on Sunday. So yesterday would have been "within 24 hours", whereas as of today, Sunday is "within 3 days" (i.e., he was last online more than 24 hours ago, but less than 72 hours ago).
Sheri
Yup, I agree.
In the moments of doubt - I keep telling myself that it will only take 1 right person to make everything all right and it does help me feel better :)
On bad days I still think of Swiss Cheese not that I would want him back or anything.
I think one of the reasons I was so crazy for this lawyer man is because he reminded me of N. aka Swiss Cheese.
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