Sitting on my hands!

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Sitting on my hands!
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Mon, 07-18-2005 - 9:30pm

Help me here....

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 9:38pm
I know the agony! Don't call/e-mail him. If he is interested at all - he will contact you.
EVERY time I had contacted a guy - I lived to regret it. I know it's hard and we give them all sort of excuses but the bottom line is - if he wants too - he will call.
P.S. isn't it OLD fun?
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Registered: 03-17-2005
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 9:45pm
This is exactly why you have many lined up at once and not put all your eggs in one basket. If you were booked socially, you'd hardly notice anyone falling off the radar.
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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 3:53pm

DON'T KILL ME...


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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 4:04pm
I think I remember LG saying match takes awhile to catch itself up as far as activity goes. Don't worry about that!! I think I would have emailed him, too. Now the ball is in his court. Did you mention anything about Thursday in your email?? I think I would have. Something like "7pm Thursday, right!??"... I truly hope you hear from him. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!!
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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 4:14pm

Aww, thanks Donna.

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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 4:35pm

Match takes a while to catch up to itself.

Why are you keeping tabs of him on match? Why are you so anxious about him?? RELAX

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Registered: 03-17-2005
Tue, 07-19-2005 - 4:48pm

Oh

My

Gawd

Are there any other prospects at all?

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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 8:29pm

The problem with you contacting him is that if he does contact you again, you don't know if it's because he's really interested in you, or if he's just being polite and getting back to you. That's why I prefer to let the guy initiate contact early on...so that I have a more accurate indication of his interest level. So, it's not a bad thing that you contacted him, it just means you'll have uncertainty if he does get back to you.

The match thing means that he was probably last online on Sunday. So yesterday would have been "within 24 hours", whereas as of today, Sunday is "within 3 days" (i.e., he was last online more than 24 hours ago, but less than 72 hours ago).

Sheri

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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 10:19pm

Yup, I agree.

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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 10:28pm
Sparkle, it's time to say NEXT. There will be another one.
In the moments of doubt - I keep telling myself that it will only take 1 right person to make everything all right and it does help me feel better :)
On bad days I still think of Swiss Cheese not that I would want him back or anything.
I think one of the reasons I was so crazy for this lawyer man is because he reminded me of N. aka Swiss Cheese.

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