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| Sat, 07-30-2005 - 10:21am |
Hi everyone,
during my year or so doing old I have noticed a strange trend. I find younger man (mid to late 20') behave better when it comes to dating than men in their late 30's and early 40's. I have encountered a few men in their 20's and majority of them behave well, they are more predictable, honest and more "old school courteous"-like when it comes to dating/intimacy.
Any thoughts on this?
during my year or so doing old I have noticed a strange trend. I find younger man (mid to late 20') behave better when it comes to dating than men in their late 30's and early 40's. I have encountered a few men in their 20's and majority of them behave well, they are more predictable, honest and more "old school courteous"-like when it comes to dating/intimacy.
Any thoughts on this?

Really...That is interesting.
CL-Truewild1969
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I'm willing to experiment cause the 35-45 are truly not happening for me lately. (smile)
These guys seemingly are so settled, never want to go anywhere or do anything. I mention different happenings around the city and their responses are "well call me when you get back in."
Keep dreaming buddy!!! NEXT!!!
Ain't it the truth!!! I get so many comments from guys, wow, you sure lead an exciting life...and I'm like, uh, this is just normal...to go out and do things once or twice a week rather than sitting around never doing anything!
So many guys in my age group are just plain...boring. All my women friends enjoy a variety of activities...we might go to the symphony together one night, but then enjoy hot dogs at a baseball game the following week. We are open to new experiences and even seek them out, what a concept, LOL! But finding a guy who is the same way is really tough. That's why I've been more...flexible, shall we say...with the non-boring guys, because they are so rare. But that flexibility only goes so far...if they have other deal-breaking behaviors, eventually you have to move on, even though you know it's only going to be going back to the drawing board where the boring guys are.
Sheri
Yes, very true.
Well now ladies, you have just tapped into my market. Which, I can shed some light on. Ok, so 22-24 are basically looking for sex and a good drinking partner. If you can keep up the good times keep on coming and you may in time become their girlfriend. 25-27 have just started to realize that they are single and all their friends are dropping like bad habits. They are like the lone rangers of their pack. Without a serious relationship or wife, they get left behind. So they start looking for "the girl". They are on this search so they treat girls great! It is like they are wipped clean of their dirty ways in their minds. They reform themselves into boyfriend material. Now they meet a great girl, date her, then start acting up. They are still really picky and indecisive. Now when a man hits hi 27-29 year range they are trigger ready! Mom is now wondering if her son is gay, as are his friends. He is alone all the time because every friend he once went out with, is now tied down. He is desperate. Wanna walk down the isle, wrangle yourself down one of these bulls. Usually their bodies are still intact, and they can be molded very easily! They need you actually, Mom will love you simply because you exist. They like to go out and do random things, why? Because they were the last ones to hold out, meaning they like to have their fun.
Taking a stab at the older brackets, they have been there, done that and just want to cut to the chase. If they aren't married, which I am guessing a lot of them are, they want sex because they haven't had it in a while. They are literally sitting there waiting for someone to come by and screw 'em. So they are a little pushy. My best guess is once they get a little action, they start to think a little more with their brains. I could be totally wrong, but this is just my opinion.
The only 20-something guys I know are always contacting me for sex. There's a 24-yo who has been pursuing me for close to four months. I've told him countless times I'm not looking for casual sex but he just keeps IMing. He's fun, so I haven't blocked him.
I have found that when I've gone out with the 34-38 crowd that they tend to come on strong physically in the first date. I have not had that experience with the 40+ crowd. My current guy didn't kiss me until the third date ...