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| Sun, 07-31-2005 - 9:10am |
Well, I happy to report that gentlemen do still exist. The guy was an absolute gentleman. He had honestly represented himself too. He was 6"3" and quite nice looking. His hair was a little thinner than expected, but he still had it :). We sat outside and had lunch by the river. I went to give him money and he not only refused to take it, but gave me that look and said "put that away..I'm taking care of you today." We walked around the town which was very nice, stopped and got a iced tai chi at Barnes and Noble and then later rented a movie and got pizza at his place. I offered to pay at each step. The only thing he let me pay for was the movies. He held my chair out for me, opened doors, ect. He held my hand and we kissed, but he didn't even try for anything else. He even said that he hoped that his giving me a kiss when we were walking didn't offend me. He wanted to put his best foot forward. He called me on my cell when I left to let me knoe I could call him at anytimte while I was driving to help me stay awake if I was tired. He also wanted me to call him when I got home so he knew I made it all right. He e-mailed me last night too telling me what a great time he had and looked forward to seeing me again soon. If I felt the same way and wanted to see him too, he would come up to me. He said I could "have stayed over and left early in the morning because he would have been the perfect gentleman and will always treat me that way." Pretty nice, eh?(He had said again how shocked he was I drove down there. He felt it was the gentleman's place to drive to the lady, but he appreciated my coming down.)Anyway, it short, all went well and we will probably meet again.

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Sounds lovely Momma215 =) Glad you had a good time and were treated well. Sounds like you felt comfy and were attracted to him as well. Yay you!
Looking forward to more updates =)
Lizzie
I'm glad you had fun and hit it off, but I'm going to be the voice of caution here. It just sounds a little too good to be true, especially the email about thanking your daughter.
I guess I've had too many men TELL me what gentlemen they are (or how honest they are or whatever) but then not follow through with their actions that it makes me wonder how sincere someone who feels they have to SAY that really is, ya know?
Enjoy, but be cautious, and give it time to make sure he's not manipulating you into thinking he's a great guy right off the bat. I would NOT let him stay over when he comes to see you or have him meet your daughter right away.
Sheri
BTW I'm a lurker just felt the need to chime in.
No offence but he seems a bit too sugary for comfort.
....off I go back to lurkdom .....
I agree w/ NW he sounds tooo good to be true, not to be a skeptic but we have all heard this before and to add in about him coming up and being a gentleman and then the part abuot the daughter. something sounds fishy to me.. sorry , i hope I am wrong
and ACTIONS ACTION ACTIONS.. WORDS ARE bs.. I jusgt went through this and not saying the man didn't mean any of it, but we have only actions to go by.. so before you believe it watch how he acts and if all good no reason to doubt.
Maybe he is a sugar daddy :)) Sorry, I feel a little crazy today :)
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