Depends on a few things - like what degree of 'anger' issues are we talking about? How much is he 'pressuring' her? Are we talking about someone she met once, or had several dates?
We usually go with either "ghosting" (just block his email/IM and stop answering his calls) or a polite-as-possible no-thanks email. If she does send a no-thanks email, "thanks for coffee but this is not the match I'm looking for" (NO apologies!) it's good to BLOCK his email address. Someone with anger issues might either send a "nastygram" or try to argue & continue bugging her, and it's easier to move on if she doesn't have to see that.
But really, the vast majority will get the point and give up if she just doesn't answer his calls/emails. You hear horror stories about stalkers but that's actually very VERY rare.
Hopefully she hasn't given him her full name or address - I don't until I get to know someone very well, because it's very easy to find my address online if you know my whole name. It's not in the general white pages, but if you know me, there's a very easy way. So I'm paranoid about that.
But honestly, she doesn't need to turn him down. Not answering his emails/calls is the best and safest way. She doesn't even need to reply telling him she's not interested.
Depends on a few things - like what degree of 'anger' issues are we talking about? How much is he 'pressuring' her? Are we talking about someone she met once, or had several dates?
We usually go with either "ghosting" (just block his email/IM and stop answering his calls) or a polite-as-possible no-thanks email. If she does send a no-thanks email, "thanks for coffee but this is not the match I'm looking for" (NO apologies!) it's good to BLOCK his email address. Someone with anger issues might either send a "nastygram" or try to argue & continue bugging her, and it's easier to move on if she doesn't have to see that.
But really, the vast majority will get the point and give up if she just doesn't answer his calls/emails. You hear horror stories about stalkers but that's actually very VERY rare.
Block his email!
Hopefully she hasn't given him her full name or address - I don't until I get to know someone very well, because it's very easy to find my address online if you know my whole name. It's not in the general white pages, but if you know me, there's a very easy way. So I'm paranoid about that.
But honestly, she doesn't need to turn him down. Not answering his emails/calls is the best and safest way. She doesn't even need to reply telling him she's not interested.