Being superficial

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Being superficial
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Mon, 04-03-2006 - 7:27pm

So my question to all you ladies out this is how superficial does this make me?


I made a date with a man for tomorrow night (or tonight) and I hadn't seen his picture yet; I don't know

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Mon, 04-03-2006 - 10:08pm

I don't think you're superficial, just human.

Honestly, I almost stood my last date up at the restaurant on Thursday because I wasn't crazy about the picture he sent. And you know, he turned out to not be a troll at all. He's a little overweight, but not too bad (after all, he's an airline pilot, and I knew he still had to fit in the seat!) and he's actually on the attractive side of things.

I guess what I'm saying is that even pictures don't tell the entire story. Especially since he admitted his picture doesn't look like him, given him a chance.







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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 04-04-2006 - 8:23am

Superficial? Picky? Wanting only soemone we are attracted to? Its all the same to me. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to meet up with someone you dont feel an attraction to. Just as there is nothing wrong WITH meeting up with someone you dont immedietly feel an attrraction to, to see what develops.


I will say, i met a guy on CL once (the 1st ever OLD) & we TOTALLY hit it off. & I never saw a photo.

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Sat, 04-15-2006 - 2:20pm

Sorry for the lateness- you know- university finals.


I went on the date with this guy and he was different looking then his picture.

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