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Woo hoo! Another winner! NOT
| Sun, 04-09-2006 - 12:33pm |
Hehehe....I'm loving the "eye roll" emoticon.
| Sun, 04-09-2006 - 12:33pm |
Hehehe....I'm loving the "eye roll" emoticon.
If he doesn't buy you dinner, send him the phone bill...hehe
TR
Am I hearing this right, Stacey? Are you trying to tell us your time is too valuable to spend in email and text messaging purgatory? lol :P
He's a winner indeed ;) Lemme at him.
I am new to the online dating, like less than 2 weeks and I thought it was just me. I can not tell you how happy I was to see your posts about some of the people out there. I swear they do not read the profiles either. I have not gotten many reponses, but I do have a load of views. One guys response to me was to talk all about his daughter. I mean it was great he loves her, but I was thinking he was sending her the email not me.
Like I said I am very new to all this and it is a little overwhelming.
Thanks
Wendy
I agree, dinner is the best first date after a very public meeting place and then the date is planned. Not before.
Yeah, I hit post by accident and didn't get back into edit.
I meant I would not meet a woman that way. After meeting her, yes, I would ask her to talk for hours on the phone if we had become cozy and have had sex or we are in the heavy petting or mutual masturbation stages, or not having sex in the Clinton-Lewinsky way of saying it, then YES, if we are both apart and really getting into each other, hours on the phone is fine.
But regular dates too, and many women don't spend more than 10 minutes on the phone with a man anymore because they got some really stupid advice. That's why they are single (still) because of the bad advice not just limited phone time.
We all started this out that no one has met yet. So, I find it a strange proposal, men usually want to know as soon as they can if the photos and the typed words jive at all with the up close and personal. A cup of coffee together is all it will take.
In any case, I wouldn't waste time with him.
It was just that so many responses were on the order of him paying for a peep.
I would, I always pay the check, I don't believe in DTreat. But I recognize that some women want to share it or leave the tip and that it is even ok to ask for separate checks. As for me, it is a sure sign that she is not interested when she at least offers to share the check.
My contemporaries and I have become wary of the women who date to obtain dinners and drinks and free entry to the nice places. Guys do talk, and if asked, I say we were not compatible but she offered to pick up the check, or insisted on splitting the tab, and so forth. Or I say, everything was fine until she got her order in. Then it was all about err, I can't remember, but it went down hill from there. Yes she did want the Chateau Rothchild (I git her a reasonable Cabernet instead) with her chateaubriand ("I know it's for 2 but I can bring the rest tomorrow for lunch").