What to do?!

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Registered: 02-25-2006
What to do?!
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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 10:02pm

Need advice. I've gone on two dates with a slightly heavier, but very attractive younger man. We talk every day and have a date for Friday. The dilemma is that I have been talking to the email guy (who since I stopped contacting has called, emailed, texted, and asked me out twice. ). HOT by the way. The problem is that we live just over an hour apart and when he wants to meet I can't (he works in sports over 65 hrs. per week until playoffs done, and I have kids so babysitting issues). Is it better to give something a chance (very nice and seems compatible) or try to work with an intense attraction that has distance and who knows what other problems already? Is it ok to see what happens with both? My profile is still up as well. (Hey I'm not getting serious too soon with ANYONE)

I don't believe in misleading anyone and who knows what babe wants(he's not on Match anymore. Says he had enough of it whatever THAT means?)
Also difficult because neither have ever been married or had kids...

Any advice anyone?
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Registered: 02-07-2005
In reply to: eliza2006
Thu, 04-13-2006 - 2:27am
I think you're fine to keep your options open at this time. Both of those guys have good qualities and I dont think there is a such thing as a perfect person anyway. If you are still interested in the LD guy, you should definitely meet him and see where that goes, too.
I think that other guy removng his match profile and stating that he's had enough of it is his own prerogative. Until you have a formal convo and actually state you are exclusive then you should just assume the other person is dating other ppl. One thing is for sure though, if you are dating other ppl it's probably best to not see a person more than twice a week. Otherwise, that gets a little too close and personal to be dating other ppl. That's just my rule for myself.
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Registered: 03-16-2006
In reply to: eliza2006
Thu, 04-13-2006 - 11:08am

You've only been on two dates with the first guy.

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