Online-LDR--all in one!! help!!
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Online-LDR--all in one!! help!!
| Tue, 04-18-2006 - 7:12am |
hi....
heya my story goes.....even i don't like hifi or myspace... a lot...
but then i signed up....just for the heck of it...
and browsed around...for new friends...
then there was this cute guy who added me..in my extended network...
we live in different cities...ie sum 400 kms..away...and we can't meet yet..
he was sweet...smart and intelligent or so i thought...
he was a total flirt...and i generally tried to avoid him..
but then he sent me ...lotsa messages...and comments...
then we xchanged photo's.....
and i started to warming up2 him...
he works in IBM...and earns a lot..oh oh..and he has a house and a merc..hehehe..wat more can a girl want???????????
ummmmmmmmmmm.....wel i was searching for personality..and good character..which i wanted in my MR.Right...well..then...i wasn't open to online relationships...
but then his persistence...made me soften...
he requested me to be his girlfriend...and i found myself sayin yes.....then we exchanged numbers...and he called............ohmigosh..and so to say we "clicked" so to say in this cyber world....hehehe...
he is a warm and friendly guy...and cares a lot abt me...
he is also open to me......and shares all his hopes and dreams...and includes me in his future plans..he also speaks to my family..ie brother and all.....
he respects me and gives me all the freedom...and doesn't pressirise me to do ne thing i dont want.................
we plan to marry soon........inspite the fact we haven't met.......uc in india,we aren't allowed to date any1 b4 marriage.............so we plan to meet soon...and decide our future together..........
so i just wanna know how to make out if he is serious???????
and should i wait for him??????????? my parents are very conservative...and am the only daughter so it makes life hell for me..mom is brainwashin me to leave him....
but i don't want to lose him....we are totally in love..
i know it's difficult to believe that we can fall for some one we haven't met...
but then fate has it's strange ways............
Now he has left for USA......for a 3 month contract and i miss him like hell..i can't concentrate on work..or family......all my family members are telling me to forget him and get on with life...which is difficult for me to comprehend.......i just cant imagine life without him...
tell.....me how to get him closer to me....and how do we convince our families????????
cheeeeeeeeeers
Nila
Edited 4/18/2006 7:16 am ET by dr.nila
heya my story goes.....even i don't like hifi or myspace... a lot...
but then i signed up....just for the heck of it...
and browsed around...for new friends...
then there was this cute guy who added me..in my extended network...
we live in different cities...ie sum 400 kms..away...and we can't meet yet..
he was sweet...smart and intelligent or so i thought...
he was a total flirt...and i generally tried to avoid him..
but then he sent me ...lotsa messages...and comments...
then we xchanged photo's.....
and i started to warming up2 him...
he works in IBM...and earns a lot..oh oh..and he has a house and a merc..hehehe..wat more can a girl want???????????
ummmmmmmmmmm.....wel i was searching for personality..and good character..which i wanted in my MR.Right...well..then...i wasn't open to online relationships...
but then his persistence...made me soften...
he requested me to be his girlfriend...and i found myself sayin yes.....then we exchanged numbers...and he called............ohmigosh..and so to say we "clicked" so to say in this cyber world....hehehe...
he is a warm and friendly guy...and cares a lot abt me...
he is also open to me......and shares all his hopes and dreams...and includes me in his future plans..he also speaks to my family..ie brother and all.....
he respects me and gives me all the freedom...and doesn't pressirise me to do ne thing i dont want.................
we plan to marry soon........inspite the fact we haven't met.......uc in india,we aren't allowed to date any1 b4 marriage.............so we plan to meet soon...and decide our future together..........
so i just wanna know how to make out if he is serious???????
and should i wait for him??????????? my parents are very conservative...and am the only daughter so it makes life hell for me..mom is brainwashin me to leave him....
but i don't want to lose him....we are totally in love..
i know it's difficult to believe that we can fall for some one we haven't met...
but then fate has it's strange ways............
Now he has left for USA......for a 3 month contract and i miss him like hell..i can't concentrate on work..or family......all my family members are telling me to forget him and get on with life...which is difficult for me to comprehend.......i just cant imagine life without him...
tell.....me how to get him closer to me....and how do we convince our families????????
cheeeeeeeeeers
Nila
Edited 4/18/2006 7:16 am ET by dr.nila

Hi and welcome to the board and to OLD!
I caution you against making too many plans with someone whom you have never met nor spent any time with.