What's with this type of response? ...

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Registered: 03-15-2004
What's with this type of response? ...
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Sun, 04-23-2006 - 2:48pm

I actually took the time the other day (after my CL screw up, lol ... & yeah, i know not everyone on CL is screwy ... lol) to sit down & email about 5 of the "favorites" & had noted from Match. Guys over hte past month i found interesting, but never put any real effort into contacting (& i dont really like "winking" ... if i am contacting someone, i do an email).


So, given i have no photo on my profile, i then need to send one. On Match, you cant just send one - you need contact BACK from them 1st. So, 3 of the 5 guys e'd me back - asking for pics. One of the guys didnt have a pic up either - & now i feel BAD b/c he "loved" my pics, & when i saw his - well, suffice it to say, NO attraction what-so-ever. NOW what do i do? I feel very badly!


Anyway, thats not my question here - but feel free to answer that too!


What i dont really know how to respond to is

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 04-23-2006 - 2:53pm

1. First guy...no need for further contact...just don't email him again. Your silence will speak for itself.

2. Second guy...write him an email saying something like, "thanks! Let me know if you're interested in talking further."

Sheri

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 04-23-2006 - 3:28pm

I second what Sheri said...

Yeah, I'm feeling you on the being married before thing...sometimes I feel like I got married so I just wouldn't have to date anymore! LOL And, yeah, nothing is worse than what would have been had I stayed, so I guess it's the lesser of two evils...LOL

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 04-23-2006 - 7:50pm
Thanks girls.

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Registered: 05-19-2005
Sun, 04-23-2006 - 9:24pm
Sit back, relax and keep on perusing Match :)