Ummm...

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Ummm...
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Mon, 04-24-2006 - 10:11pm

CL guy and I had our fourth date tonight - of course, I use the term "date" loosely.

We had dinner outside, and it was cold, so he put his arm around me briefly and rubbed my back to try to warm me up and then dropped it. Ok...

Anyway, he dropped me off at home (this was the first time he'd picked me up) and he left the car running, got out, gave me a hug, told me "you're a great girl" and got back in and left.

So - huh?!

Ok, he left the car on because it was having vapor lock issues and we almost didn't get it started earlier. I'm 90% sure of that. But, at date number four, why am I getting a hug? And what does "you're a great girl" mean? I'd chalk it up to "he's just not that interested" but he's soooo awkward and shy that he's hard to read.

WHY am I even dating.....







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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: lothiriel2000
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 8:56am
Funny - my freind is in the same boat. She just had date #4 & prior, she said "I think he is a-sexual. He hasnt even kissed me yet".

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Registered: 03-16-2006
In reply to: lothiriel2000
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 4:10pm
Have you tried making some subtle "moves" on him yet?
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