DONE with OLD for a while.......
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| Tue, 04-25-2006 - 9:27am |
Ok, so I've just about had it with OLD. I was on POF, SingleParentMeet, and PerfectMatch, and I have to say that there is absolutely NOTHING out there. Argh!!! I took my add off of POF and SingleParent, and I am stuck with PerfectMatch because they suckered me into a 4 month membership. Since signing up, (it's been since March 10) I have only had one man reply to a ice breaker that I have sent! Then he ghosted...whatever. This is rediculous. I'm through. I'm so tired of the men that are out there who are not what they say, psychos, or just plain players.
Why can't I just find someone who is kind, thoughtful, and just an all around good guy?? It's just so damn frustrating.
So, here I sit wasting my 100 bucks on something that I will NEVER do again. It's a joke. My opinion is to NOT apply for PerfectMatch.com.
Thanks for letting me vent. Not sure how long I'll be lurking on this board.....
Lisa


Yup, sounds like it's time for a break! I usually take a break every once in a while but for some reason it sucks me back in!
Hi Lisa,
Sorry to hear about the bad luck with OLD. I'm soooo
Hi Michelle,
Yeah, I totally hear you on that. I've been so done with Yahoo even though that's where I've had most of my luck. It just seems like wherever you go, they're all the same faces. I went out to a dance club last weekend with my gf, and she said, "Look around, doesn't all these guys look like men that you would see on Match.com?" She was sooo right! lol...It just seems that lately there are all these 'cookie cutter' men out there, and NOTHING is appealing to me.
I'm starting to think that maybe I'm just not ready to date, don't want to date, and just 'simmering' right now. Frankly Michelle, like you, the idea of coming home and crashing on the couch with some really good Netflix DVD's and my cat on my lap is more appealing then the stress of 'getting ready' for a date. UGh...I'm sounding sooo like an old lady right now! YIKES! But I'm deciding that I'm not going to force things. I am going with how I'm truely feeling and letting it be at that. Too bad we didn't live closer to one another, we could hang out! lol
I've never tried CL, and the thought of 'weeding' right now just turns me right off. Sooooo....here I sit. lol I will still check this site, could never stay away... it's too much a part of my day! :) Everyone here is so supportive, and I would always like to support the others here as well..;) I'm around..;)
Lisa
Yeah I hear ya Lisa...it really requires so much effort to work OLD (and date in general)