Apparently ....

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Apparently ....
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Wed, 04-26-2006 - 9:07pm
I am now in an LDR. The guy I posted about a couple of months ago who sent me roses? He's stayed in constant touch with me and we met for 5 days last week in his city, where I conveniently was going for a conference. (Really.) It was like a trip to fantasy island. He made the most amazing preparations, bought provisions of all kinds for "our" room (he stayed with me the whole time, kind of crazy but it was wonderful) including wine, champagne, snacks, everything down to bathroom deodorizer spray! He was sweet and attentive and helpful and oh yeah, the sex was nonstop. Now, I actually know for the first time what it's like to have a man who is "that into me!" I have no idea how we will manage this in the long run, but right now, it's very cool. He travels a lot, so we will have ample chances to meet in various cities for rendezvous-es. And we discussed everything including what will happen if one of us meets somebody local. (Play it by ear -- he thinks it's far more likely that will happen for me, as my life is more stable than his right now, and said he doesn't like it but has come to terms with it.) While for awhile it was feeling a little smothering, now that I have spent time with him it feels very natural and comfortable. Who knew????? Oh yeah, my Much Younger Man? I think he's history....
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Thu, 04-27-2006 - 12:52am
Yey! That all sounds wonderful! Good for you guys!!!!!!!!
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Thu, 04-27-2006 - 3:00pm

Well, I'm happy for you...you sound like you're having fun and that's great. I hope things work out...I'm jaded about LDRs due to my negative experience, but I know they can work out (just look at our own Eric and Mel!).

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Thu, 04-27-2006 - 3:07pm
Thanks, Sheri -- I was going to ask you about that actually. For now I'm just going to enjoy having a guy who's the oppositive of JNTIM!