What would ya'll think?

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Registered: 05-31-2005
What would ya'll think?
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Wed, 09-13-2006 - 6:52pm

For a person you know for many years and the discussion of mb being more than friends has come up... and now it's a matter of trying to meet up to see if there's still some sort of spark (intellectually there is)... if a comment was made about if the connection was as good in person that it'd be curious to see if ya'll were all over each other when you meet again... and when you made your intentions clear on that (nope, not a chance), if there was a discussion about how people should just be free and go with their feelings and not stop sex just because the girl thinks the guy will stick around longer... how would you take it? Thoughts?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-13-2006 - 6:59pm

Eww. I'd be insulted, frankly. That's not why *I* wouldn't be having sex, and I would expect someone who cared about me to respect me enough to make my own decisions on that topic for my own reasons and respect me enough to let me do what I needed to in order to take care of myself, ya know?

Sheri

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Wed, 09-13-2006 - 7:14pm

See I always battle myself on this one... I know I have a sensitivity to the subject because I wonder if it's all a guy wants. But what if

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-13-2006 - 8:13pm

Well, even if that's the case, he should still have enough respect for you to allow you to make up your own mind about the timing, rather than trying to manipulate YOU into having sex sooner than you are comfortable with.

Sheri