Amazingly My Relationship Is Still Going
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Amazingly My Relationship Is Still Going
| Wed, 09-13-2006 - 10:30pm |
I guess I have posted here a few times, but never really said much about what is up with my own dating life. Anyway, I have been seeing a guy that I meet on match for about 3 months now. So much is stacked against this relationship I am amazed it has lasted this long. We have oposite work schedules, I work 9-5:30 or so M-F and he works 5-9 M-F. So that leaves very little time during the week to see each other. His weekends have been filled up for the last month to month and a half. I just moved and now I live a good 45 minutes from him, before I was probally a good 25-30 minutes. I have a long distance cell phone and his plan doesn't have long distance minutes. I have yet to see where he lives, but I should add that he still lives with his dad so I do wonder if that doesnt have something to do with it. Plus he says its a mess. So far he has met one person I know (for about 2 seconds) which is my new roomate, and I haven't been introduced to anyone he knows. We seem to see each other once every other week or so, and talk on the phone once maybe twice a week, but not for long. He's not on IM so I don't talk to him there, and we haven't exchanged emails since we actually meet in person. To be honest I am amazed things have lasted this long, at times at seems this are finished but they just keep going. To me it seems things are moving forward extrememly extremely slowly. He's doesn't seem to express his emotions much, but neither do I, so I don't really no how he feels about me. I am really not sure what to do in this situation, so I am looking for any advice you might have. I think what I am really looking for is hope that even if things are bad now they may get better.

Uh....how old are you guys? You work full-time and he works part-time but he only calls once a week and you only see him once every other week. He lives w/his Dad in a messy house and this has been going on for three months but you have never met his friends or visited his house?
I know when two people are relating you can equate it to a relationship which is what you and this guy have (more of an acquaintance); but I got the impression you were assuming this was some sort of love relationship that is growing slowly and it's NOT!!
Get out and meet people and keep your options open!