Can this be possible or not?

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Registered: 08-27-2001
Can this be possible or not?
Mon, 09-18-2006 - 10:50pm

Hi. Is it possible to be jealous for a guy you dont even know in person just thru online chatting?
I have been chatting with a guy much younger than me since last year, we dont know each other in person yet. He has asked me to meet him in person for several ocassions but Im stil very skeptic in knowing a guy that I havent really known first face to face, and also If I do meet him it will be the first time ever in my life I meet a guy who I met online first. If I havent met him before is because there are some proposals that he has asked that I dont agree but he continues to ask me if I want to meet him. Still even if I have said no, he still chats with me and viceversa. Wr have spoken on the phone though, but that is it, but the times I have spoken on the phone, he never calls, he always has asked me to call him because he wont call, just phone and online chatting.

The thing is that it has been a while he does not log in the internet so I havent been able to chat with him and also I thought his cell phone was not working but it is working the thing is that everytime I call him he does not hear what I said, he only says like "hello, hello" and then hangs up. So I wonder how could that be. I thought perhaps there was some technical problem in his cell phone or something. The thing is that today he again log and asked me not to call him anymore on his cell phone that he did not have a cell phone anymore and he wont plan in buying a new one anytime soon. I really did not know the reason why, he does not tell he told me that over chatting and then he disconnected from the chatting. Then I sent him an email because I was clueless about his attitude, I dont know if I did something to him or what to treat me that cold. So I emailed him and asked him why that it was not my intention to bother him or something. Then he rplied me back and told me that No no, he was not upset with me it is simply that last time I called him on his phone he had some few problems with his girlfriend.
That was a total surpirse for me, I did not know he had a girlfriend because he never mentioned me anything before.

So I guess it is not that he does not have a cell phone, the thing is that he perhaps he does not want any more trouble with his gf, that is why he told me not to call him anymore that we could stick to email messages.

For some reason, I feel jealous I dont know there is this sensation in my body that really dont like the idea of him having a gf. I mean I dont even know the guy in person, but I feel jealous and I dont want him to not to contact me anymore it makes me upset.

Is this jealousy or what is it? I mean like I said we dont even know in person but we have 1 yr talking, chatting, messaging.

Any ideas?