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| Wed, 09-20-2006 - 9:13am |
I went on Camping/Hiking/Canoeing trip with Camping guy I m seeing. Was a bit hardcore but I m glad I could keep up. I guess going to the gym 5 times a week helped me do it.
We had so much fun and it was so beautiful and romantic... on the way back we planned to stop in a small town but had a little argument over the map and asking for directions... it was no big deal but he got pissed off. So when we got there I was extremely tired so I decided to stay in the car and he took a walk for 15 min and got back. The remaining of the road he was distant and non-responsive so I slept instead of chatting with him.
The next day, I did not want this argument to get bigger so I email him saying thank you for planning this trip and for everything he did... no replies.
I send another email the next day to remind him to send me my share of the expenses and mentioned I will do an electronic payment ( kuz I was not going to suggest meeting him when he is acting like that) anyway I get a call from him at night ( 2 days after the trip) and he tells me he was mad at me for wanting things my way only and not appreciating his effort to make it a great vacation!! (hello! I just sent him a thank you the day b4)
Overall I did not like his reaction! if he was angry he should have brought it up. Also he ignored my email to try to mend things. I find him rude and too dramatic!
I dont plan to see him this week at all. In fact I made plans for the whole week already without him.
He also told me during the trip that he decided to stay for 18 months in my city and might stay longer if he gets extension for his contract... I dont know whether he is acting already like we are in a relationship or whether he is taking me for granted! but I never gave him this idea since I told him I m planning to look for a job in a different country. And certainly his way of dealing with this silly argument makes me not so keen about having a relationship with him!
