When things are not quite as they seem

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Registered: 05-19-2005
When things are not quite as they seem
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Mon, 09-25-2006 - 10:49am

So a few days ago, I responded to a humorous ad on CL. The guy posted a few photos of himself (looked okay...albeit, they weren't close up shots). So we began a round of short emails. He sounds like a nice guy but...

Yesterday, I looked up his email addy on myspace and discovered that he wasn't my type at all. Too short and not as good looking as I'd previously believed.

So what to do next. I really have no interest in meeting him at this point.

What would you do?

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Registered: 02-10-2004
Mon, 09-25-2006 - 3:23pm

Ghost him baby!

Coolas

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Registered: 03-16-2006
Mon, 09-25-2006 - 4:46pm
If you absolutely, positively do not want to go out of your regular zone and potentially meet a nice guy who might not be your type physically, then either ghost or send a quick email saying that you've decided you're not a match.
heather 5-18-10