I met a guy online...

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Registered: 08-13-2006
I met a guy online...
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Sat, 09-30-2006 - 12:55pm

I met this guy online...It is so weird... So far we haven't talked on the phone or met yet. But we have been chatting online every day for a week. We have a great online rapport.

We have ALOT of things in common, for example - we have daughters the same age, we live close to each other, we used to live in the same area, we both used to work in the same area, we both have same parenting beliefs, creative, within same age range, our astrological signs are very compatible (heheh).... I could go on...

But the one thing in common that both freaked us out is that he has been to my work for business and has seen me! I've never seen him before (or can't remember).

We were supposed to meet for lunch this past Friday, but a tragedy happened in his family and he had to postpone our lunch. He shared a family picture with me so I was touched... He appreciated that I was so understanding.

I hope our chances are good and we click in person...

I don't know what I'm really asking... Just wondering if this is fate and if we were supposed to meet. Thats what I told him - we were meant to meet...

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Registered: 04-29-2003
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 1:25pm

Well meet him and see what develops but don't build it up i.e. fate.


About a year ago I ran across someone on line I had done business with over the years for various companies I worked for. One of the companies he sold us beepers for all our Executives (like 8 years ago) then I ran into him again and he sold my company our check cutting system (where you do the automatic debit)

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 1:36pm
Wow, thanks for sharing your experience... Yeah I am hoping 'fate' had a hand in this... LOL. But we still have to meet. One time I was talking to a guy online for over a month before we met and on phone. We got along really well.... And he was falling for me. OMG when we finally met, I was - oh.... I was so disappointed. Thanks again for your advice.
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 10-01-2006 - 9:26am

Yep- thats the danger or having more of an "on line" relationship - for too long - b4 you meet IRL.

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