How long should I wait???
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| Fri, 10-06-2006 - 8:12pm |
Okay, I was going to wait a while longer before trying OLD, but I found a dating site that I thought was for single parents and started browsing. I found a great guy, but discovered too late that unfortunately, if you bookmark a guy, he'll know you did it. So since the deed was done, I pd $10 to buy points just so I could email him. I spiffed up a profile quickly and emailed him on, um Sunday. So every day I check the site and on Tuesday he looked at my profile but didn't email back. And every time I check the site, it adds to my profile that I checked it today, so i look desperate.
Today I got frustrated and decided to check one last time. He looked at my profile again on Thursday, but still no email.
THe problem is, I don't like this site. It isn't for single parents after all, I only linked to it from a single parent site. I don't like that guys can know every one who even looks at his profile, and a lot of the guys were skanky at best. This one guy was the ONLY one on the site I was remotely interested in. I am very intereseted in him! So I want to get off the site, but I want to hear from him before I do.
If I emailed on Sunday, he looked at my profile again on Thursday, just how much more time do I give him to email me back? I'm DETERMINED not to look to desperate so i won't check it tomorrow.
The wait is killing me! WWYD?

I would give it at least another week or two (although if he hasn't emailed you by now I wouldn't hold your breath). There's no harm in having a profile up; you don't have to respond to anyone you're not interested. And who knows, maybe someone you *would* be interested in will see YOUR profile and join just to email you, just like you did with this guy!
Sheri