Does too good looking=out of my league?
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| Sat, 10-07-2006 - 8:22am |
While I was browsing last night, I found the profile of someone I know. I don't actually know him, but he used to be on the radio in our town and I've seen him perform live (12 years ago). He has a beautiful voice, a dynamic personality and is totally hot. I think his wife was in the show too, and she was hot also. But obviously they are not together anymore!
I'm getting a kick out of this, I would consider this guy to be WAY out of my league. I consider any guy who mentions his looks too much in his profile as someone who thinks that looks are important. I, frankly, am only average or ordinary looking. So this kind of person in general doesn't appeal to me. I also avoid any profile with muscle pictures. Guys who have time to focus that much on their bodies tend to be shallow IMHO. (this was a problem with my ex).
So how do you deal with the issue of a potential match being too good looking?
And also, WWYD if a potential match was a minor celebrity?

If you think he's out of your league, then he will be because it's really all about confidence. I've seen some folks who weren't the greatest looking but they exuded such confidence that they actually became HOT. So believe yourself to be gorgeous and it will radiate from you...
Is he the one mentioning good looks in his profile? If so, do you really think that type of person is a good match for you?
I wouldn't say he was over the top about it. i think he said "I've been told I'm decent looking"
Oh, no, I wouldn't have the balls to contact him, it just made me wonder...
IMHO, muscle pics and talking too much about looks in the profile is a huge indicator of what kind of person he is, and yes, I would have to agree, shallow.
When I come across an extremely good looking guy, I treat him just as I would anyone else, unless he is shallow. Then, I 9 times out of 10 will skip right over the profile. If you're out to just have fun, then sure go ahead and flirt with that guy who is a minor celebrity, but from reading your post about having an X who was ultra focused on looks, this is a quality it seems you're wanting to move away from, no?